A fresh start in Germany, the battle against a serious illness, two children, and building a new professional future—the story of the person I am speaking with today shows how one can forge ahead despite immense challenges, learn a new profession, and build a career in the financial sector. I warmly invite you to read this inspiring interview.
Tell us a little about yourself: Where are you from, what did you do before moving to Germany, and how many children do you have?
I am originally from Ukraine, from the Vinnytsia region. Before moving to Germany, I worked in banking, where I gained extensive experience dealing with people and finances. I am the mother of two wonderful children—a daughter and a son. They were, and remain, my greatest motivation to keep going.
What were your first few months in Germany like? As a mother, what worried you the most?
The first few months were very difficult. We arrived because of the war and had to leave behind our home, our familiar way of life, and our sense of security. As a mother, I worried most about whether the children would settle in, make friends, learn the language, and feel safe. I wanted to provide them with stability, even though I was under a great deal of stress myself.
When did you realize that you wanted to do more than just adapt to a new country—that you wanted to build a career there as well?
At first, my only focus was survival and helping my children settle in. But over time, I realized that I didn't just want to exist in a new country; I wanted to find personal fulfillment, continue to grow, and be a role model for my children. I wanted to show them that it is possible to make a fresh start, even after facing the toughest challenges.
Why did you decide to pursue a career in financial consulting?
I was passionate about the financial sector even before I moved here. My experience working at a bank showed me just how important financial knowledge and making the right decisions are for a family's well-being. I enjoy helping people understand financial matters and finding the best solutions for them.
What was your level of German proficiency at the start, and did that hinder your progress?
Initially, my German skills were very basic. Of course, it was challenging, but I quickly realized there would never be a "perfect" moment to start. I began learning and practicing, and I wasn't afraid of making mistakes. It was taking action that helped me move forward, not waiting until my language skills were perfect.
How did you manage to balance your studies, your job, and raising your two children?
It required good organization and discipline. There were days when I was so exhausted that I just wanted to rest. But I always knew exactly why I was doing it all. Gradually, I learned to manage my time effectively and seize every opportunity for personal and professional growth.
Were there moments when you wanted to give up? What helped you keep going?
Yes, there were such moments. I've had to endure very difficult times in recent years: the battle against cancer, forced relocation due to the war, and the uncertainty of life in a new country. But every time, the thought of my children gave me strength. I wanted to show them that, even in the toughest situations, one can find the strength to carry on.
What kind of support did you receive along the way from family, friends, or German institutions?
I am very grateful to the people I've met along the journey. The support from friends, acquaintances, and German organizations helped me settle in more quickly. However, I drew my greatest strength from my children and the belief that anything is possible if you don’t give up.
How has your life changed since you started working in the financial sector?
I've gained more self-confidence and a sense of stability. I’ve started meeting new people and expanding my circle of friends, and I see prospects for my future in Germany. Above all, I feel a sense of professional fulfillment again.
What would you say to migrant women with children who are unsure whether they can build a career in Germany?
I would say: Don't underestimate yourself. The fact that you have already mastered moving to a new country, settling in, and managing childcare is a testament to your immense strength. Don't wait for perfect conditions; start with what you have today. Step by step, you can achieve far more than you can currently imagine. Your children will be proud to have witnessed the example of a strong, courageous, and determined mother.
This isn't a story about a perfect life. It's a story about the strength that emerges when a person refuses to let circumstances dictate their future.
Julia, thank you so much for participating. For financial questions, insurance matters, and other important concerns, please feel free to contact Julia.
Author: Maryna Bets. If you would like to share your story with us, please send me an email: betsmaryna@gmail.com
